Monday, May 27, 2013

My Tribute on Memorial Day 2013

This is a piece I wrote in the spring of 2005 or 2006 after holding a flag at a local soldier's funeral when Westboro Baptist came to picket. I would have gone to hold a flag even if that group wasn't there just to show support for the family and to honor the sacrifice of a life given in military service.

On the Funeral of a Local Soldier
            Today my community laid to rest one of its sons.  Hundreds gathered to honor the life and death of Sgt. Rick Herrema although most of us had never met him or his family.

            All I know about Sgt. Herrema I learned from the newspaper or television news.  He was the only son in a family of three children.  He grew up outside of Hudsonville and graduated from Unity Christian.  He joined the Army after spending a short time in Colorado.  He loved the Army.  He had been in Iraq only a few short weeks when he was gunned down by insurgent forces while exiting a helicopter.

            According to what his family and friends said, Herrema was fun yet responsible.  One told the story of his buying a school bus, refurbishing it, repainting it, and driving his friends to another soldier’s wedding.  He was fiercely loyal to his family, country, and faith.

            I wish I had known him.

            Yet today I was part of a community who joined together to say farewell to Sgt. Herrema.  I knew no one gathered today and will probably never see anyone of these people again.

            This community was made up of various groups.

            The most important group of this community was the family and friends who knew the fallen hero.  There must have been several hundred as the funeral procession was made up of close to 100 vehicles.  They were old, and they were young.  For 90 minutes they shared memories of his life inside the church.

            An official community was the group of Army officials who acted as pall bearers and escorted the soldier to his final resting place.  No doubt these young men were from all parts of our county and may have been in Smalltown, USA for the first time.  Hopefully they saw beyond the cleanliness of this small west Michigan community and sensed the strong value system of faith that molded Sgt. Herrema.  Hopefully they also felt the appreciation many have for their sacrifice to serve our county in the armed forces.

            The next largest group of the community simply did not fit into this mold we see daily in Hudsonville.  Their black leather, doo-rags, and loud Harleys made them stand out from the conservative members of this heavily populated Dutch area.  They gathered a mile down the road and rode their bikes together to the church.  The parade of motorcycles was loud and long.  They parked their many bikes and walked silently to line up along the sidewalk with others to stand with others who had cheered their arrival. 

            These were the Patriot Guard, a group of veterans who travel around the country to demonstrate their support of fallen soldiers’ families at funerals and graveside services.  A check of their website showed that several riders came from as far away as Arkansas and Tennessee.  Tomorrow they will go north to another soldier’s funeral.

            Another group consisted of others of the Hudsonville area who were already lined up on the sidewalk when the motorcycles approached.  Some carried posters that said “Thank you Sgt. Herrema for my freedom” or “God bless the Herrema family.”  Others had similar slogans written on large sheets.

            I was one of this group—simply a local resident who loves the USA, is saddened when I hear of a soldier killed, and gets chill bumps when the national anthem is played. 

            Almost everyone outside the church carried a United States flag.  Two rows along the sidewalk on one side of the road was a sea of red, white, and blue waving in the gentle winds under the sunny sky.  Flags were raised while sheets and posters were held proudly.  The crowd filled the air with chants of “God bless USA” and “God bless Sgt. Herrema” while the family entered the church parking lot and filed into the church.

            Following the service as the funeral procession prepared to file to the cemetery a local school allowed their students to show their respect.  Several grades of students followed the instructions of the Patriot Guard to salute the hearse as it passed by and stand quietly while the procession passed by.  For at least ten minutes the elementary children stood at attention or waved at the passing cars.  They will have a memory forever of showing thankfulness and respect to one who gave his life for freedom and the impact their gesture had on the family and friends who waved to them as they passed by in thankfulness.

            For three hours today all of these groups formed a community united in gratitude for sacrifice

            Yet another group was anti-community.  This was the smallest group there yet they were responsible for the presence of so many others.  There were six or seven adults and children in this group; I did not count them as most of us were careful to not acknowledge this group with looks or comments. 

This group also traveled from out of state to attend the funeral.  They came from Kansas to picket the funeral with signs and shouting.

Their chants of hatred and cruelty sent chills up my neck. 

Their purpose to disturb the funeral participants is rooted in a religious belief that further separated them from the community represented across the street from them.  Their protest was based on a belief that God is killing US soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan because of the United States tolerance of homosexuality. 

This small group had an area set aside for their protest.  Police were present to keep them within these confines and to protect their freedom of religion and freedom of speech to express their views although contrary to the majority of people assembled that day.

Yes, they had the freedom to protest.

A comment heard often on my side of the street questioned the irony that Sgt. Herrema was killed fighting for freedom, and now these people had the freedom to disrupt his funeral service and disturb his family and friends.

For that reason we all came together to protect his family and friends from the protestors even though our religious and political views were as varied as the people assembled.

I really have little or nothing in common with the people I stood with today.  The only black leather I have is in a purse and a couple pairs of shoes.  I have little contact with elementary aged children.  I have lived in Hudsonville for less than two years; my last name does not begin with “Van” or “Vander” and it does not end in “a” which means I don’t have Dutch roots.  I was neither family nor friend of Sgt. Herrema.

But today I was a part of a community that said thank you and goodbye to our son.

2 comments:

Ann said...

Very powerful!

the handmaiden's studio said...

Thank you for loving and supporting our military. As an Army wife of 22 years, your description of people's devotion brought tears to my eyes. I believe we share an interest in faith and how it applies to our daily lives. I would be so thrilled if you would check out my blog thespiritualhandmaiden on blogspot. peace, Mary